Happiness is a choice. Your circumstance can affect it, but you’re still the one who decides your happiness. Unknown
Deciding to be, stay and live happy is the best choice I have ever made. Of course there are times when I am sad in situations. There are times when I am angry in situations. Yet, in all situations the longer I stay emotional to a degree that I am not happy with the less time I have to be happy.
My mentor Jack Jackson was one of the greatest men I knew. I did not speak to him often because he was tough to catch up to. He got out of bed every day and went to breakfast in a little restaurant in Boquete, Panama. He often forgot his cell phone at home. His house phone was the way to catch him but it was hit or miss, mostly miss.
I did speak to him a few weeks ago. It was great to hear his voice, we spoke for a bit and I said “Jack I want to get to see you soon”. He replied, “I would really love for that to happen, that would be good.” He paused for a moment and said, “Danny, I am not well”, (Of course I knew that) he continued, “I have a hard time remembering things, I don’t feel well,” and he stopped himself in Jack fashion and said, “yes I would like to see you, I look forward to it.”
Jack gave me permission to reach out and teach people in recovery the principles of living a happy life, goal directed life, a life that was in congruence with the laws of the universe. We shared a common mentor, Earl Nightingale. Before I met Jack I felt I would be shunned by the recovery naysayers, and they did and still do at times. Every time I spoke to Jack he asked me if I was still in the field and when I affirmed it he would say, “good, that is great, that makes me happy!” If you knew Jack you have heard him say, “Life is meant to be enjoyed and not endured.” He believed in life and he did not fear death. He believed that when you have completed the cycle of life you leave and when you leave, you leave a bunch of good and joy with it.
The world lost a great man 6 days ago, I lost a friend, a cheerleader, and a guide. When I hung up for the last time, I said Jack I look forward to seeing you soon, I love you, he responded, “me too, Dan, me too…”
Life is good.